So how can anyone really say they’re in love with a specific person, for example? They’re only in love with the anticipation of the emotions they’re addicted to.

On the subject of quantum physics, what is happening on the outside is only a result of what is initiated from the inside.  If you can believe that objects are not objects, and that molecules can be in different places at the same time, then you cannot trust reality for what you think it is.  If you are what you eat, then how come you eat your heart up when love forsakes you? The trick to life is not to be in the know, but to be in the mystery.